dating adventures of a 15 year old boy

i am suppose to be working hard on my Fiji report, BUT
i could not resist blogging about my brother's dating adventures!

my brother asked me a really difficult question, one which i have no answer to.
so if there are any men who is reading my blog, please give me some GOOD advice so that i can pass it on.

Brother: " Jen, how do normal people act casual"
Jen: "huh, what do u mean?"
Brother: " i want to act casual with Jane* not desperate"
Jen:" erm.... i am not too sure. maybe you should ask some other guy about it"

and so it went on.

Jen: " maybe you should not messaged her so often then"
Brother: " so should i msged her once a week or three times a week?"
Jen: !!!!! i am loss for words.....

*names have been changed to protect the individual's identity.


when i was 15, i had my head buried in books! not BOYS!
and now looking at my brother, he has practically been through 2 relationships.
he has beaten me hands down, pants down. i only have been through 1.
i know pathetic right, but but but..... my only excuse... i was a nerd and not interested in boys.
i have alot of catching up to do though!

The brother ended the conversation with " just let fate decide everything"
and i couldn't agree more :)